If you’re in a position where you’re saying my wife is about to leave, then no doubt you need to act fast.
The chances are that you CAN fix this if you just start doing a few things differently.
This article will explain what those things are and how you can start today.
Why You’re Likely Saying My Wife Is About to Leave
There are a few reasons that your wife would want to leave you. There IS one reason that I can’t do anything about. I can’t help you if you’re an abusive ass. If you’re abusing your wife, and now she wants to leave you, then just congratulate her and let her go. Leave her alone, and go get help.
Now there’s also the possibility that you’ve cheated and been messing around with other women. This may actually be fixable, but you DO need to get some help. And you need to do some serious make up work, to get the trust issues back on track.
With that out of the way, there’s the other chance that your wife has just fallen out of love with you and now she wants out of the marriage. It might not be exactly that, but for the most part, if your wife wants to leave you…she’s pretty much over you.
Your job, if you’re saying my wife is about to leave is to turn this around, and get her back to feeling like she can’t be without you.
Chances are that when you and she first met, she was having those feelings. Can you remember back in your “honeymoon” period where she couldn’t get enough of you?
If you can, you need to start thinking about how good that felt. How it was to have her almost addicted to you.
There’s a major reason that she was feeling that way. What you think is “true love” is actually more simple than that.
Now I’m not saying that she wasn’t in love with you, but people tend to make this whole “true love” thing too complicated. Love is real. True love between a man and women are real. But why does it fade? Why after years of marriage do so many people say things like “I love him but I’m not in love with him?” Where does that “love” go?
Well the problem is that the love is actually a symptom of something else. It’s a symptom of ATTRACTION.
How to Get Your Marriage to Where You’re No Longer Saying My Wife Is About to Leave…
So chances are that your wife is simply not attracted to you anymore.
Now you may be thinking it’s because you have let yourself go, or that you haven’t been as attentive to her “feelings” as you used to be. Maybe you’re thinking I’m going to say that you haven’t taken her out on enough dates, or bought her enough flowers, or special gifts.
I’m not going to say any of that actually.
What I’m going to say is that you haven’t been being the guy that women (not just your wife actually) are attracted to.
You’ve become what they call in the seduction and pick-up artist world as a beta male. This happens a lot in marriage, and the reason is simple. In fact it happened to me actually until I figures out a way to fix it and turn it on it’s head so that my wife is now totally attracted to me.
The reason it happens is because you start doing all the things that seem like they’re going to be easier to deal with.
Life is tough, and tiring. Especially if there are kids as well. So we starting doing things like deferring decisions to the wife instead of making them ourselves. We start taking her lead and letting her make the playbook. We stop stating our opinions and just start agreeing, rather than having our own opinions. We stop taking the lead.
We stop being alpha!
Now let’s not mix this up like some of my newsletter readers tend to do. Some misinterpret this as thinking that you have to turn into a douche bag, and start treating your wife like crap. That’s not at all what this is about.
This is about simply leading, and you can lead by never being demanding, and never being mean, and never being negative. And you can, and should do it by absolutely loving your wife and showing her all the respect that she deserves.
However there are a few certain traits that you need to develop to do this. It’s called becoming a man again. And once you start the process you’ll be amazed at how quickly it starts to turn things around for you and your marriage.
If you do things correctly, you’ll end up with a wife who nearly worships you, and is insanely attracted to you again. It doesn’t take much, but not many men have the courage to try.
At least in your situation you’ve got not much to lose right?
After All…You’re Already Saying My Wife Is About to Leave
Are ready to change your situation, and be able to stop saying my wife is about to leave then you need to take on just 3 traits?
If so then just click here now!