My wife hates me…it’s a terrible thought…and it hurts doesn’t it?
I know it killed me when I used to think that.
It was horrible. Here the one person in the world that I thought the world of (well, sometimes) and basically she couldn’t stand me.
When You Think My Wife Hates Me, It’s Not Always Easy To Do the Right Thing
This was one of the toughest periods of my life by far. I didn’t know what to do, or how to think. It didn’t feel like there was a way out for me. Do you feel like that in your marriage?
If so then I want to tell you that you need to take a deep breath. Actually you need to take a sigh of relief. Because even though it may feel like your marriage is about to tank, if you’ll do a few things right things will work out.
My Wife Hates Me – How This Is Possibly the End
But not doing things right could mean the end of the marriage, simply because you’re on borrowed time here. I hate to say that, but it’s the truth and here’s why…
Your wife has likely slowly but surely been losing a ton of attraction and respect for you. Believe it or not those two things pretty much go hand in hand with one another. Most men don’t realize this, but it’s the absolute truth. That’s why it’s vital that you learn to do the things that first of all keep your wife from hating you, and second of all, build huge attraction.
You see, when you say I think my wife hates me, what you’re really saying is that my wife has lost a ton of attraction for me, and therefore no longer has any reason to feel like she wants to keep me around.
And then you go and you do all of the things that you think that she wants from you. You buy her gifts, you take her for “date night”, you kiss her ass, you try to be more affectionate. But what you’re really doing is totally and completely lowering YOUR value in her eyes.
What you need to do instead is exactly what I did…
What I Did When I Was Saying My Wife Hates Me
What I did was begin to be more like the man that she TRULY wanted down deep to her core.
You see, your wife may say, and even thinks herself that what she wants is a guy who’s going to do all those things I talked about above…buying gifts, kissing her ass, etc. But that’s not what she wants down to her core. It’s not what she wants down into her DNA from centuries ago when she was a cavewoman.
Back then she wanted a true caveman who was a strong alpha male type of leader. And guess what she wants now… That’s right…the same type of guy. It may fly in the face of everything else you read or hear, but guess what…
Right now you’re reading this article because you’re thinking my wife hates me. What you’ve been doing hasn’t worked, and now look where you’re at.
Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again while expecting different results. Don’t be insane! It’s time to do something different and get a different and much better result where your wife ends up highly attracted to you again, and basically infatuated with you. Your entire marriage will chance drastically.